How Not To Be A Simp (Tale of Two Kings)

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Oh, we told you how to break it.

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You double down, you triple down.

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You don't back down.

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You will serve as me in my office.

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Listen, that's for me if we're going to serve the Lord.

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The Bible says there will be two in the bed.

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When he returns in the rapture, one will go up and one will get left.

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It can't be me.

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He can't be me.

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I have to serve the Lord.

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Now, What are you going to do with the Lord?

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Are we going to be mean with eachother?

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Man cannot just, uh, uh, uh Watch their wives go to Hell do they.

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You gonna Love Her, Then you're gonna win Her And you're gonna teach her And you're gonna Love her And you're gonna win her Or you're gonna teach her And you're gonna win her and Love her And teach her And serve the Lord And you'll never have to ask Your Mother.

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Come to work, Come to work, Now, Now! Yeah, but I'm telling you now, now, you know, if you've had temptation before, get out of your form, get out of your cursing, get out of your drinking habits, get out of whatever habits you went through.

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Now you have a wife and kids with him, you ain't got time to be playing with this now because they're not going to believe you because we thought you was a priest, but I see you living the same lifestyle I'm living.

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Come on.

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You can't wait and you do the same thing I wanna do.

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Come on, come on.

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So what about him to do?

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Spend time with them.

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Be free.

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Be set.

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Grace, forever.

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This is the hard one.

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I knew it was supposed to be a happy, happy Jumping, jumping, Georgia.

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Come on.

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But if you want to win her, you will serve God until they chop your Amen.

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Hey, welcome to a brand new episode of Man to Man 360.

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And of course, I am your host, Daryl Anderson.

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And listen, this is a brand new episode, but a special episode.

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And.

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As you may remember from time to time and in a different months, we would do a man cave edition.

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This is a man cave edition.

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In the man cave.

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It was a little poor, but you should be able to hear the messaging.

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I thought this was a powerful enough session and also making for a great podcast.

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Hopefully if it's clear enough that you should be able to hear, understand, and have a great, great, great experience here.

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Let's jump right into the man cave.

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And this man cave is actually called this two, it's two names to it.

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The official name is.

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The tale of two Kings, but the unofficial, which it wound up becoming more of the official was how not to be a simple, and we'll explain that in just a minute.

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So let's jump right into our live man cave edition.

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Hey guys.

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So we have an exciting night tonight.

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How many people know that the topic is tonight?

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You might know what the topic is, the theme tonight?

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How not to be a son.

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Right.

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We just changed it to that.

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We just changed it to that five minutes ago, right?

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So the, uh, the original, what was supposed to have been the topic was the tale of two kings.

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The funny story behind it though is, um, uh, we was joking in our meeting and I said, yeah, what the poll is, how not to be a son.

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So I left that in the meeting and then I went on my vacation and I said, Oh, by the way, go ahead and make the postcard, but I forgot to give them the real name.

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And so they showed me the picture of the postcard.

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Oh, okay.

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Well it is what it is.

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But anyway, so it's a tale of two Kings called not to be yourself.

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And so we'll explain that in a little bit tonight.

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Um, but really the, the, the, the, the, um, just the gist of this is this, uh, We were talking a couple of months ago, and so tonight's going to be for married men, single men, divorced men, and happy men.

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And happy men, happy men, and men who want to get back into, uh, you know, married or whatever, right?

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Um, cause we were having a conversation, I don't know where Kaz was, but it was all of us and Kaz we were talking about how there's a lot of ladies out there who are like, I want to get married.

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But for example, I make a ton of money, right?

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And you know, you make it, I know this situation, I know a guy, I've mentored a guy who's like around 50, 000, 40, 000, 50, 000.

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But his wife makes like 200, 000 plus, right?

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And so that's like, eh, that's a little tough.

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But one of the things I'll never forget, that she said to me, it was a young couple, she came to me and she said, You know, um, what I really loved about him.

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I mean, I know, I know my profession and all that, but what I really respected about him was it's hard for the Lord.

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Amen.

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Amen.

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So if you're trying to chase money, you don't have to do that.

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That's right.

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Um, and so tonight we want to show single men how to be regardless of the situation.

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How you should be the king of that relationship.

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Not, not, not, not the, the, the, um, the machismo.

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That's not what we're going to be talking about today.

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We'll explain that in a little bit.

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But also how married men or divorcee men or men who want to get back into the dating game and find a wife.

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How do you not be at the setup?

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And we're going to show you, and we're going to compare two kings.

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I'll give you, I'll give you a hint right now.

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So obviously the man can, we talk a lot about David, that's one king.

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And then we're, which was the greatest king other than Jesus.

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The worst king, and I'm going to point you in scripture and show you, he's the worst king.

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God calls him the worst king ever.

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Is the king Ahab.

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We're going to compare these two kings and these two kings will show you how you even need to live or how you need to not live and it will transform your home, transform your life.

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Especially if you're single.

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Especially if you're married, including myself.

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Amen?

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Amen.

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So tonight's going to be really, really exciting, but it's also going to be a little rough.

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Because as we go through the Word, not me, but as the Word, you'll be wrestling with some things.

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You'll say, I thought I was doing this right, and I hate the fact that what he's talking about right now in the Scripture.

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The Scripture is supposed to do that, so it's okay.

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The Scripture is supposed to do that.

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So we all wrestle with that kind of stuff, right?

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Amen.

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But when you're wrestling, realize you're wrestling because it's a, it's a, um, it's the Holy Spirit working on your heart.

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That's all.

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Trying to make you better.

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And as you wrestle with it.

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Let the Holy Spirit work tonight.

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Amen.

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Amen.

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Amen.

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Amen.

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Amen.

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Amen.

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How many of you guys are ready for the mad kid tonight?

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Yeah.

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Welcome to the mad kid.

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I was mad.

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This is joy.

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I was mad.

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Listen, you have to jump right in.

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Jump right in.

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How not to be a simp.

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First of all, what is a simp?

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Mike, I'm sorry.

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A simple or a foolish person.

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No, that's not the word I want.

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Okay, the other one, the other one is someone who is obsessed with the interest of women.

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A simp is a man who disrespects himself for women.

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So two men can do the same exact things.

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And for one man, it is simping.

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And for the next man, it is not.

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So, to avoid this, we must think, before we spend our time, attention, or resources on any woman, have they done anything to deserve it besides being hot?

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If they haven't, And say they're not treating us well to continue to try to pursue would absolutely be disrespecting ourselves So remember that the next time you think about spending your time attention or resources on a woman So she's hot you just go crazy over it just do whatever right I can't, I'm married.

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Amen, amen.

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Let's jump right in, um, and weird enough I left my Bible, so I don't need an electronic Bible.

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And all of you guys who have Bibles, obviously I'd like you guys to do some reading for me.

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But let's look at the first King.

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I want to show you guys these two Kings.

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Let's go ahead and jump right in.

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So let's start with the first King.

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Let's go to the first King, chapter 21.

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First Kings chapter 21.

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And let me know what Bible you're using or translation you're using when you decide to read it.

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Who's going to be one of my readers?

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Where do you use it?

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New Kings chapter.

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New Kings?

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Alright.

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Um, so we're going to start in verse 1.

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Let's, uh, let's jump right in.

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Chapter 21, 1?

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Yep.

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Yep.

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Alright, starting out 1.

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And it came to pass after these statements that Naples, the Jairus Light, had a vineyard which was in Jesuit, Jesuit, okay, you don't know how to read, you don't know how to read very well, just some words, next to the palace of Abraham King of Samaria.

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Keep up.

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Okay.

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So spoke to me about What is it?

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even with the Oh, okay.

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Ahad saying Give me your vineyard.

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And I may have it for a vegetable gardens because it is, because it is near next to my house.

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And for it, I will give you a vineyard.

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Better than it.

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Or if it seems good to you, I will give you it's worth in money.

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But Nate, say it again.

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Neighbor.

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Neighbor said to Ahab, the Lord forbid that I should give the inheritance of my fathers to you.

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So Ahab went into his house, so, and just leaves because of the word.

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Which neighbor?

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That just, how do you pronounce that light had spoken to him.

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For he had said, I will not give you the inheritance of my father's and he laid down on his back and turned away his face and would eat no food.

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Okay, stop.

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I'm going to have you read that one again, but I want you to pause.

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Now, who would touch fire?

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It's the hand.

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The hand.

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The hand is what?

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It's a change.

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It's a change, right?

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I want you to read.

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Because this guy lived south of the property, I want you to look at this man's response.

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Read the second half of that verse slowly.

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Read it.

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The, uh, number five, same verse.

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He just finished number four.

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Oh four, sorry.

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So Ahab, so Ahab, the king is saddened and pissed off right now because the guy wouldn't sell, re went into his house solid and displeased Uhhuh because of the word.

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Which neighbor that Israel had spoken to him now for?

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He had said, I will not give you.

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The inheritance of my father, and he laid down on his back and turned away his face and would eat no food.

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Did you catch that?

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Did you catch that?

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Did you catch that?

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Basically, he went to his friend and he grabbed him and he slapped him.

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You got to understand, you know, he chopped his face.

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That's basically what he did.

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Did you catch that?

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So, the one thing you want to understand about when you read scripture Anytime it gives you a lot of detail in certain things, that's important.

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Is that what I'm saying?

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Because normally it could have just said he went to his room.

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But when it gave you all of that, it's pointing at something so that you can see that.

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Right, right.

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What does that look like, guy?

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Like a chow.

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Like a temper tantrum.

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Like a temper tantrum.

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Exactly what I was saying.

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But if you don't like the food, that's good as well.

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I mean, I'm not going to get there yet.

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What else?

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It was a step.

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What else?

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What did I list by?

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Child.

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Child, right?

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It's formed.

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It's formed.

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Yeah, right?

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Now who is it?

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Hey, hey, hey.

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Keep reading it.

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But Jezebel's wife came to him and said to him, Why is your spirit so solid that you eat no food?

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He stepped in because I spoke in the name of the Jesuit and said to him, give me your video for money or else, if it pleases you, I will give you another video for it.

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And he answered, I will not give you my fingers.

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Then just know his wife said, you not exercise the authority over his wheel, arise, eat food and let your heart be cheerful.

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Okay.

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I will give you the finger of the neighbor.

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Stop.

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What did she say she wanted to do?

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Give it.

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Give it.

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Give it.

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Now what did that sound like?

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I just want to get, I just want to get where you are.

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What you are hearing so far.

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What, what did that sound like?

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That she's the boss?

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Yeah.

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Boss of the house.

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In control of the house.

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In control.

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Come on.

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Look at that phone.

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This is what I mean.

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Come on.

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Look at that sound.

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Selfish.

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Power over her brain.

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Like that?

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What else?

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Controlling.

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Controlling.

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What else?

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Selfish.

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Okay, we'll talk about the raw meat of that.

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There's a picture of her.

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What else?

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Selfish, right?

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She said she would do what?

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Give him.

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Give him.

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Does she, does she sort of, Well, she was, but did she sound pretty certain?

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Of course.

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Not mine?

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Who is he?

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I think she sounds as if she knows who she is.

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Yeah.

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Yeah?

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But, uh, she's encouraging him because she said be true.

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Oh, he's a dirt to her.

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He's a dirt to her.

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To be quite honest with you, it sounded a little, um, I don't know.

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Now, the whole disposition that you put off sounds a little bit effeminate to me.

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It doesn't.

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Her aura sounded pretty masculine.

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You see, I'm done.

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No more of that.

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I'm leaving.

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I got this.

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I'll take care.

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I'll take care of him for you.

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Really?

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That's good.

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Okay.

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Don't funk, Jackson.

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Amen?

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That's what we got.

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Now, read the text first.

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Got it.

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And she wrote letters in ASN.

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Ha! Read the new song.

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See you.

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Start over.

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Okay.

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And she wrote letters in ASN.

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Amen.

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Sealed the with his steel, with his, what?

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His guy sent the letters to the elder and dope were ding with, okay, we'll pick up from there.

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Right after this, how many are ready for the man cave?

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Yeah, the man cave is developed around, we call it the five pillars.

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There's praise and worship.

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Or we sing a song or two and really just, uh, invite the presence of God in and get the guys singing and clapping and whatever, and really make a push on getting guys into the music.

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It's typically guys like to avoid praise or lifting of hands or singing and that type of stuff.

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So we really put a focus on that.

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And then we go right into the music.

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From that into prayer, you know, intercession prayer.

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We ask guys if there's certain things that they want us to pray for, to agree with them in prayer for, uh, and we make sure to focus it on them.

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Sometimes guys will say, Hey, listen, I got this neighbor.

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Can you pray for them?

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And we're like, no, no, no.

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We want to know what is it that you need prayer for?

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Because, because you're the neighbor, that's your job to pray for your neighbor.

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From there, we actually go into the competition part.

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Now that's the exciting part of the man cave.

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It just creates that competitive piece, makes it exciting.

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Let it go.

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It gets that testosterone, uh, bubbling up and everything else.

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And there's a reason to that really too.

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I've been doing men's ministry now for almost 30 years.

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A lot of times men don't really have those men focused things at churches.

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So in some cases, the guys that can feel a little, um, Feminine or emasculated in some cases.

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And because of that, we want to make sure that there's a masculine feel to men's fellowship.

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It's both fun.

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It's inviting.

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It's also used as a fish bait to get guys out.

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Yeah.

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The other reason that we do competition is so we can create two teams.

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And in creating two teams, we create a camaraderie between those guys.

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They stay on those teams for the duration.

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You don't go from second Friday to second Friday.

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No, you're contacting guys in between guys, able to reach out.

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Guys are able to, Hey man, I'm really dealing with this thing.

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We're struggling with this thing so they can reach out to somebody.

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We go from the competition park and then we go into the work.

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We go into scripture.

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We, uh, do some teaching and then we make.

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Breakout into breakout groups.

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The breakout groups allows guys to be able to, um, answer some things or share their thoughts on those same tough topics that was just preached a few minutes ago.

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The word is, is a two edged sword.

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It cuts open things.

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It exposes us to ourselves, at least.

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to what's really happening on the inside or the things we've been trying to cover up and hide.

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And then we break from there and then we eat.

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That's a great time to be able to dive in and just really see how guys are doing.

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Pastors and churches don't have a men's ministry.

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You're missing out on the opportunity to free that man from that thing he's been trapped in, that stronghold that's been in his life.

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Men's ministry allows him to be free, vulnerable, and then.

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And free.

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So she did.

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She wrote the letters in his name, signed Ahab.

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Then she use his official sign and sent it off.

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So the elders who got the letters assumed they was giving these letters from who?

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The king from Key came.

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Right?

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I mean, that sounds illegal calling jail.

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I guess you could say it was illegal, right?

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Yeah, yeah.

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Forgery do that nowadays.

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How.

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Oh, how many haven't heard of Jessica with the name?

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Oh, she's a check.

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I can just bow.

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Well, that's it.

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I said, who's got a red dress?

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She's got a red lipstick.

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I got nothing to do with red dresses and red lipstick.

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Don't you mean a cat?

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Huh?

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Don't you mean a cat?

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A what?

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A cat?

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No, a carrot.

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A carrot?

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Oh, good thing, good thing.

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So I'm going to give you, you're going to hear a lot of definitions about what a Jezebel spirit is.

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I'm going to tell you, make it real plain right now.

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That verse was the definition.

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Now let me, let me say something a lot that you don't say, a Jezebel spirit is not just in women.

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It's also invented.

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It's any spirit that uses somebody else's authority to get advantages in life.

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That's uncounted.

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Uses other people, so they can get close to you, to use your name.

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So, especially, let's say in the church world, I used to hear this a lot, where somebody would come in, Hey, hey, you guys have to do such and such and such, or don't do that, or do this or do that.

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Why?

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Well, because Christ has said so.

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And then you ask for another setback.

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So you're using somebody else's authority as if it's yours, but he never gave you that authority.

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So you might think it's nothing, or it's lying, but that's the Jezebel spirit.

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And it's not always in women.

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It is very feminine to some degree.

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A bracelet.

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She manipulated.

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Oh, very good.

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And that's the, that's the spirit.

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That's the spirit.

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But what you're going to learn today is this, this message is not about Jessica.

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I think I see her.

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My wife, my girlfriend, my ex, my ex is definitely a Jessica.

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But tonight's lesson is not about Jessica.

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Who is it?

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Wait for the teacher.

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Now, let's look at the other king.

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I want you to hold that in your head.

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That's the first king.

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Now, let's go look at the second king.

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Alright?

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Now, we're going to go over to, uh, uh, Centurion.

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I'm going to give you another read.

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Okay, hold on one second.

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Everybody got it?

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Yep.

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We're going to go to 2 Samuel chapter 6, and we're going to start in verse 13.

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2 Samuel chapter 6, and we're going to start in verse 13.

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Alright, uh, Mark, when you get ready, we lock the door.

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King James, right?

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King James, okay.

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And so it was, when those bearing the ark of the Lord had gone six paces, that he sacrificed oxen and fed the sheep.

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Then David danced before the Lord with all his might.

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David was wearing a blue miniframe.

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Okay, let's stop right there.

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Just to give you guys some reference, we actually, I'm actually doing this message a second time.

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Because we did this already, and when it was called, Praise the King, we talked about that, remember that?

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So, this is where the Ark of the Covenant was taken from Israel, and 70 years, it was gone, and they finally was able to bring it back.

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Now, the Ark of the Covenant represents what?

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So now they get to bring back the argument covenant into back into Israel.

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And at this point, David is celebrating now, read that last verse one more time, then David danced before the Lord with all his might and David was wearing a living gift of it.

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Now you used to hear a lot of people say that David danced out of his clothes, but he didn't dance out of his clothes.

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But remember, he's a king, so they were three, sorry, they were royal governments and whatnot, right?

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Now here, it doesn't tell you that, but when you read later, you see that he came out of something else.

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The other something else was his kingly robe.

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That part's important.

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And I'll explain it in a little bit.

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That part's important.

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So he came out of his robe, but underneath, he wasn't in underwear.

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He was wearing a linen ephod.

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Do you guys remember when we talked about this before, what the linen ephod was and what it represented?

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Anybody remember that?

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I don't know.

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You know, I'm not doing a good job, but that's not a good one.

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It's the Priestly Garment.

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It's the Priestly Garment, right?

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So he was wearing the Priestly Garment because he was actually wearing the same garments that the, that the priest was wearing at the time.

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That's the original descent, right?

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So as he's rejoicing, he comes out of his Royal Garment and he's only wearing his Priestly Garment.

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That's all he's wearing.

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So David.

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Yeah, so David and all the houses of Israel brought to the Ark of the Lord, shouting and the sound of the trumpet.

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Now as the Ark of Lord came into the city of David Al.

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Saw daughter looked through a window and saw King David.

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Leaping and whirling before the Lord, and she despised them in her heart.

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Stop.

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First of all, it wasn't, from a whirling perspective, customary for kings to dance.

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Let's get that part straight first.

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It just wasn't.

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Like, you're a king, you don't dance.

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Right?

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You don't whirl around.

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You don't, you don't do all that.

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You're a king.

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Come on.

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Come on.

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Right?

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So that's, that's, that's what she was doing, right?

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Right.

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But I want you to catch the key word here, read that last part, uh, uh, uh, and that last part before it goes into what she did, what did it say that Saul, I'm sorry, that David's doing?

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It's David.

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It's an intimate word.

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Keep going.

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Before the Lord.

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Stop! Before who?

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The Lord.

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Who was David's audience?

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The Lord.

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The Lord, or God, that's what he's saying here in the verse, right?

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Keep reading, keep reading, keep reading.

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And she despised him in her heart.

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And she despised him in her heart.

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Why?

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Why?

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Keep going, keep going.

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So they brought the Ark of the Lord and sat it in its place in the midst of the tabernacle that David had erected for it, that David offered burnt offerings and peace offerings before the Lord.

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Okay, now jump down to the next scene.

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Then he distributed among all the people, among all the whole mountain of Israel, both the women and the men, to everyone a loaf of bread, a piece of meal, and a cake of raisins.

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So all the people departed, everyone to his house.

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Then David returned to bless his household.

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And Michal, the daughter of Saul, came out to meet David and said, Son, whip to the corner.

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Why don't you call the dog a son?

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Because he, uh, he made a point.

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The description had given us a hint of something.

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He's probably acting, acting like a father.

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He's probably acting like a father.

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Amen.

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So when you see, when you step in the scripture and you catch something, never assume it doesn't mean anything.

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It does mean something that if all of a sudden, instead of saying, hey, that's Daryl's wife, it's like the daughter of G.

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Like, whoa, where did that come from?

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Her name changed that part, right?

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So those things are important.

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Period.

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Now this part is important.

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Now I want y'all to listen to what's about to happen right here.

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All right.

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So one, correct?

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Yes.

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Then David returned to bless the household and became the daughter of Saul, came out to meet them and said, How glorious was the king of Israel today, uncovering himself.

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Today, in the eyes of the maids of his servants, as one of the base fellows shamelessly uncovers himself.

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Hmm, you look like a fool, David.

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You look like a fool.

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Keep reading.

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So David said to Miguel, Now, right now, we're going to show you how you handle a Jessica.

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If we were to stop the message right now and we go home, I'm going to show you real quick how you handle a Jessica.

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Whatever it is you deal with in your home, hopefully you don't have a Jessica in your home.

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But I'm going to show you something real quick.

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I'm going to do a mini teaching within a teaching.

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It's going to be a 60 second teaching.

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Everyone's everyone.

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Everyone that's born.

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That's a lot.

00:29:39.944 --> 00:29:43.515
Every last one of them has the curse of evil.

00:29:43.644 --> 00:29:44.285
That's right.

00:29:45.515 --> 00:29:45.914
That's true.

00:29:46.914 --> 00:29:47.555
The curse of evil.

00:29:47.555 --> 00:29:48.694
Everybody know what the curse of evil is?

00:29:48.694 --> 00:29:54.285
That she'll have the desire for, oh, I want my wife to desire me.

00:29:54.285 --> 00:29:54.835
No, no, no, no.

00:29:54.904 --> 00:29:56.255
She will desire to rule me.

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Right.

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But to sanctify me for the humble, I suppress that, and then they suppress it.

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No, no, no.

00:30:05.434 --> 00:30:06.305
I respect my husband.

00:30:06.535 --> 00:30:07.194
I'm not going to move over.

00:30:08.224 --> 00:30:12.904
But when they're not suppressing that, they're always trying to rule you.

00:30:13.835 --> 00:30:16.815
That has nothing to do whether your wife is saved or not.

00:30:16.984 --> 00:30:19.244
Your girlfriend or fiancé is saved or not.

00:30:19.454 --> 00:30:20.505
Nothing to do with it.

00:30:20.505 --> 00:30:28.684
Whether she's saved or fooled over, and you see any slight part of her dead, she still has the curse and E in her.

00:30:28.684 --> 00:30:29.154
You got that?

00:30:30.565 --> 00:30:34.585
The Kep's though, as women suppress that, That's one thing.

00:30:34.835 --> 00:30:40.015
If they don't, eventually it turns into a spirit of Jesuit.

00:30:41.394 --> 00:30:43.394
Because she has no real, no, I'm trying to, I'm trying to move here.

00:30:45.615 --> 00:30:51.285
It turns eventually into, this here is how you stop it.

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Matter of fact, remember I said it's not just in women.

00:30:57.674 --> 00:31:01.684
It's not just in you, your wife, or your girlfriend, your ex, and all that.

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Anytime there's a spirit of Jezebel, this is how you end and kill the spirit of Jezebel.

00:31:09.644 --> 00:31:10.565
Here it is, read.

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So David said to Michael, It was before the Lord who chose me instead of your father.

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Uh oh! Uh oh! Ouch! Your dad is dead because he did not worship the Lord properly, and he sinned before the Lord and never got it right, and he was trying to kill me all along.

00:31:35.525 --> 00:31:35.825
Read.

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You chose me instead, your father, in all his house, to appoint me a ruler over the people of the Lord, over Israel.

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Therefore, I will play music before the Lord.

00:31:48.474 --> 00:31:52.474
What he just said, is he said, I will double down.

00:31:53.565 --> 00:31:55.055
Oh, you don't get to start praising the Lord.

00:31:55.755 --> 00:31:56.244
Oh, okay.

00:31:56.795 --> 00:31:59.005
Matter of fact, I'm going to double down.

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I'm going to praise him even more.

00:32:01.045 --> 00:32:03.380
Not just praise, I'm going to worship him even more.

00:32:03.650 --> 00:32:11.559
Matter of fact, I used to only go on Sundays, but I think I'm going to come on Tuesdays and Fridays and Wednesdays and Thursdays.

00:32:11.619 --> 00:32:12.630
I even show up for Saturday.

00:32:12.740 --> 00:32:13.869
What time is Saturday break?

00:32:14.599 --> 00:32:15.905
I'm going to show up for Saturday, 10 o'clock.

00:32:15.905 --> 00:32:17.930
I'm going to show up for Saturday, 10 o'clock break.

00:32:18.099 --> 00:32:19.680
Is that, is that okay with you, wifey?

00:32:20.829 --> 00:32:21.569
That's what he did.

00:32:22.109 --> 00:32:22.859
He done done.

00:32:23.099 --> 00:32:23.589
He great.

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And I would be even more contemptified than this.

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And I will be humble in my own sight, but as for the maidservants of whom you have spoken, by them I will be held in honor.

00:32:40.190 --> 00:32:44.670
Stop! I don't catch what you're saying?

00:32:44.670 --> 00:32:45.950
No, no.

00:32:45.950 --> 00:32:47.347
You catch what I'm saying?

00:32:47.347 --> 00:32:47.940
What happened?

00:32:48.980 --> 00:32:58.609
You see, now, now it's like, well, you want to, you know, get a young place for, for, um, For me to have the intention.

00:32:59.365 --> 00:33:00.625
You, they would honor you.

00:33:00.799 --> 00:33:05.059
You know, because you not being in your, you not in your position.

00:33:05.599 --> 00:33:08.089
Somebody else gonna be looking anyway, officer warn.

00:33:08.420 --> 00:33:08.869
That's good.

00:33:08.944 --> 00:33:10.224
I wanna bring up something else though, guys.

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And I said, I, I told, I warned y head, this gonna be a tough message.

00:33:14.974 --> 00:33:15.825
It's gonna be a little tough.

00:33:15.944 --> 00:33:16.369
I don't know.

00:33:16.369 --> 00:33:17.990
Nobody's situation here.

00:33:18.289 --> 00:33:18.950
I don't know.

00:33:18.954 --> 00:33:20.750
And I don't care to know anybody's situation.

00:33:21.079 --> 00:33:23.421
So what I'm gonna say next, it may hit you.

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And if it does, do not take that personal.

00:33:27.190 --> 00:33:30.779
I'm only reading what I see in the scripture.

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You all got that?

00:33:33.069 --> 00:33:44.190
When David was out dancing for the Lord, and all the people were there, and all the maidens and all the men were there, where was my pal?

00:33:46.900 --> 00:33:48.750
I'm going to ask every man in here a question.

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One.

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When you're in worship, where is your wife?

00:33:53.359 --> 00:33:53.509
Come on.

00:33:53.509 --> 00:33:55.130
Come on.

00:33:55.130 --> 00:33:56.750
Come on.

00:33:56.750 --> 00:33:58.730
I'm not going to look at nobody's faces up in there.

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Where is your wife?

00:34:00.500 --> 00:34:02.880
Let me see the dog.

00:34:02.880 --> 00:34:03.759
Where is your wife?

00:34:03.759 --> 00:34:04.230
Kill it, bro.

00:34:04.279 --> 00:34:04.630
Kill it.

00:34:05.130 --> 00:34:06.200
Where is your wife?

00:34:08.159 --> 00:34:09.170
Where is your wife?

00:34:10.500 --> 00:34:15.400
You see, if I'm a Muslim, then my wife is going to be a Muslim.

00:34:16.230 --> 00:34:20.460
And if we're at the mosque, then my wife is going to be there on the days that women come here.

00:34:21.590 --> 00:34:26.480
If I'm a woman in the city, there's a temple or whatever, and she don't need to wear a mask.

00:34:26.480 --> 00:34:30.940
But if I'm gonna leave her to chew over, then she don't need to wear a mask.

00:34:30.940 --> 00:34:33.900
We're not gonna be here, and just somewhere else.

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Amen?

00:34:43.719 --> 00:34:45.364
I'm only reading what's standard.

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I cannot be in worship.

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If all everybody's there in my wife's nowhere to be found, she hears about where she sees it somewhere else because she wasn't worshipping with Now read the last version.

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I know you were in the second one.

00:35:09.405 --> 00:35:10.025
Read the last one.

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Finish it up.

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Finish it up.

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Read verse 23.

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Their phone count, the daughter is small, had no children to the day of her death.

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So that was a curse on her life.

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That was a curse on her life.

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Brother Dick, without adding anything, the biggest curse to a woman in the Old Testament was not to have children.

00:35:38.719 --> 00:35:39.597
Not to have children.

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A curse, a curse.

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That's it.

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Amen.

00:35:42.755 --> 00:35:44.635
So that's, that's the biggest disgrace right there.

00:35:44.635 --> 00:35:45.474
She never had children.

00:35:46.425 --> 00:35:46.804
Why?

00:35:51.735 --> 00:35:52.565
More than that.

00:35:53.614 --> 00:35:54.405
More than that.

00:35:55.114 --> 00:36:01.085
I'm glad you said that it applies both men and women because there's a lot of women in church without the man.

00:36:02.625 --> 00:36:05.605
Now I will say though, there's a difference there.

00:36:05.605 --> 00:36:06.574
There's a difference to that.

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Because men don't follow the law.

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So unfortunately, when the she has scripture said th her husband and women, we imagine what he did first talking about resuming th when that man is saying s right now, the woman is s If he's not, let's see what happens.

00:36:35.835 --> 00:36:37.304
Yeah, that makes sense.

00:36:38.005 --> 00:36:39.507
Come on y'all, does that make sense?

00:36:39.507 --> 00:36:42.005
I can't make this stuff up, can I?

00:36:42.005 --> 00:36:44.324
Guys, follow me over to, um, Joshua.

00:36:44.324 --> 00:36:46.835
Go to Joshua 24.

00:36:49.864 --> 00:36:51.724
Joshua 24 and go to verse 15.

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Somebody read it.

00:36:53.635 --> 00:36:54.934
Who else, who else got this?

00:36:55.534 --> 00:36:56.815
And tell me what version you got.

00:36:58.195 --> 00:36:58.954
I want a different version.

00:36:59.135 --> 00:37:00.664
Who got Joshua 24?

00:37:01.144 --> 00:37:01.514
I got it.

00:37:01.875 --> 00:37:02.554
What you got though?

00:37:02.554 --> 00:37:03.284
I got it.

00:37:04.644 --> 00:37:05.505
Okay, I'm working.

00:37:05.804 --> 00:37:08.925
Can you read the last one here over there?

00:37:08.925 --> 00:37:13.844
24 verse 15.

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If it is disagreeable in your sight to serve the Lord, choose for yourself today whom you will serve.

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Stop! Did you catch that?

00:37:22.730 --> 00:37:24.244
Did y'all catch that?

00:37:24.824 --> 00:37:25.755
Read it one more time brother.

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If it is disagreeable in your sight to serve the Lord, Choose for yourself today who you will serve.

00:37:32.949 --> 00:37:35.800
In other words, if you don't like it, I still have to serve the Lord.

00:37:36.769 --> 00:37:37.429
It doesn't matter.

00:37:38.139 --> 00:37:38.659
It doesn't matter.

00:37:38.880 --> 00:37:39.210
Keep reading.

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Whether the gods which your fathers served, which were beyond the river, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you are living.

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Stop! This is the part that everybody likes to quote.

00:37:54.909 --> 00:37:56.099
Yeah, oh, fine.

00:37:56.684 --> 00:37:57.445
Here it comes.

00:37:57.574 --> 00:37:58.025
Here it comes.

00:37:58.025 --> 00:37:58.744
Drum roll, please.

00:37:58.744 --> 00:37:59.414
Here it comes.

00:37:59.844 --> 00:38:03.724
This is an important verse, but you need to understand the backing behind it.

00:38:03.905 --> 00:38:07.105
Now, imagine, remember, who am I talking, who's my audience tonight?

00:38:08.195 --> 00:38:13.744
Married men, single men, divorced men, and men who want to get married again.

00:38:14.264 --> 00:38:14.744
All men.

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All men.

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And I didn't exclude young men.

00:38:25.199 --> 00:38:28.083
I'm not going to do that.

00:38:28.083 --> 00:38:31.929
Now, let's read that part of the story.

00:38:31.929 --> 00:38:33.851
Just the last part.

00:38:33.851 --> 00:38:37.695
But as for me and my house, stop.

00:38:37.695 --> 00:38:39.137
As for who?

00:38:39.137 --> 00:38:39.619
Me.

00:38:39.619 --> 00:38:40.099
Stop.

00:38:40.099 --> 00:38:41.541
As for who?

00:38:41.541 --> 00:38:42.021
Me.

00:38:42.021 --> 00:38:43.463
As for me.

00:38:43.463 --> 00:38:45.385
I've asked nobody else.

00:38:45.385 --> 00:38:48.510
Now, I know you have someone to this.

00:38:48.539 --> 00:38:49.389
That's something pretty hard.

00:38:49.389 --> 00:38:51.659
Come on, come on, back it up.

00:38:51.659 --> 00:38:53.655
No, I'm not backing it up.

00:38:54.625 --> 00:39:00.545
You see, the only reason my house is successful is because I made a mistake.

00:39:02.844 --> 00:39:03.815
How many of you have daughters?

00:39:05.545 --> 00:39:05.954
Daughters?

00:39:06.094 --> 00:39:06.385
Okay.

00:39:07.414 --> 00:39:10.454
The last thing you want to do is hand your daughter over to some mom.

00:39:10.454 --> 00:39:14.594
The last thing.

00:39:15.445 --> 00:39:19.320
The last thing you want to do is hand your daughter over to some mom that won't take care of her.

00:39:19.820 --> 00:39:24.360
You're assuming regardless of what kind of Greeks you got, how much money she going to make and all that.

00:39:24.639 --> 00:39:28.719
You're assuming, suitably, that this man is going to do.

00:39:28.739 --> 00:39:30.760
Come on now, don't be, don't, don't, don't get woke with me.

00:39:30.949 --> 00:39:31.539
Be honest with me.

00:39:32.170 --> 00:39:33.869
You're assuming this man is going to do what?

00:39:35.780 --> 00:39:36.610
Don't make me shout.

00:39:37.639 --> 00:39:38.449
He's your dog.

00:39:38.670 --> 00:39:40.849
What are you assuming this man is going to do?

00:39:40.849 --> 00:39:42.480
Take care of her.

00:39:43.110 --> 00:39:43.869
And what else?

00:39:45.219 --> 00:39:45.550
Provide her.

00:39:45.670 --> 00:39:46.769
Provide her with what else?

00:39:47.190 --> 00:39:47.579
Protect her.

00:39:47.579 --> 00:39:48.230
You have to protect her.

00:39:48.675 --> 00:39:52.974
And the priest, you know, priest.

00:39:56.465 --> 00:40:00.045
And you wouldn't give it to her like, I don't know.

00:40:00.045 --> 00:40:00.565
She's not safe.

00:40:00.565 --> 00:40:04.664
You wouldn't, you wouldn't, you wouldn't, you wouldn't, you wouldn't bless them.

00:40:04.934 --> 00:40:06.215
You wouldn't, you wouldn't.

00:40:06.215 --> 00:40:07.414
I don't know.

00:40:07.414 --> 00:40:10.655
They don't get to take care of my, I mean, she might have moved back in with us again.

00:40:11.065 --> 00:40:12.594
That's who can't take care of my daughter.

00:40:13.885 --> 00:40:16.635
You're not, you're not, you're not going to give him, give him your blessing.

00:40:17.505 --> 00:40:18.375
You're assuming it.

00:40:18.829 --> 00:40:33.860
Guess what assumes that that heavenly father, he has all these daughters and it's, Ooh, I'm going to get to my son and I sort of got messed up.

00:40:35.789 --> 00:40:36.389
That's God.

00:40:37.400 --> 00:40:42.079
God is a just like you would do the same thing.

00:40:44.349 --> 00:40:46.300
I think you're ready to do a message in a couple weeks.

00:40:49.079 --> 00:40:50.090
It's related to that.

00:40:50.710 --> 00:40:51.340
That same thing.

00:40:54.170 --> 00:40:56.900
You being evil is the name of the subject, the title.

00:40:57.670 --> 00:41:03.969
You being evil, it's relating how, if you being evil, know how to do good to your kids.

00:41:06.019 --> 00:41:10.230
How much more does God do for us?

00:41:10.230 --> 00:41:18.802
So if you don't take care of my dogs, you better take care of them, or else! I don't think you know, right?

00:41:18.802 --> 00:41:25.000
If you think that way about your daughter, how does God think about his because he's handing them off to you.

00:41:25.000 --> 00:41:26.940
You said to say, you said you left Lord.

00:41:27.070 --> 00:41:28.230
You said you feel the Holy Spirit.

00:41:28.289 --> 00:41:29.170
You said you work.

00:41:29.289 --> 00:41:30.239
You said to protect her.

00:41:30.380 --> 00:41:32.480
You said you, you, you, you, you made a violence with that.

00:41:32.480 --> 00:41:39.050
Right.

00:41:39.050 --> 00:41:39.559
Right.

00:41:40.039 --> 00:41:41.050
Did you finish that verse?

00:41:41.880 --> 00:41:44.650
And it's this verse, but that's for me in my house.

00:41:44.699 --> 00:41:46.090
We will serve the Lord.

00:41:48.360 --> 00:41:48.619
Period.

00:41:50.400 --> 00:41:50.820
We're not out of time.

00:41:52.820 --> 00:41:53.179
We're not out of time.

00:41:54.250 --> 00:41:55.889
We're going to serve the Lord.

00:41:55.889 --> 00:42:00.199
Now, guys, that's assuming something.

00:42:01.570 --> 00:42:14.164
That's assuming that if you pick a righteous man, It's assuming that, you know, that you're not, that you met, that you were, when you were born again, and then you met her, you met someone who was born again.

00:42:14.945 --> 00:42:15.204
Amen?

00:42:15.474 --> 00:42:16.885
Who believes the same way you believe.

00:42:18.014 --> 00:42:21.079
Now, you could have gotten, say, the after effects differently.

00:42:21.079 --> 00:42:21.389
Amen?

00:42:21.389 --> 00:42:28.853
But I want you guys, I don't know if you can be quiet in here, but I have to put these messages out there.

00:42:28.853 --> 00:42:29.164
Right?

00:42:29.164 --> 00:42:32.894
But as for me and my followers, we both serve the Lord.

00:42:33.364 --> 00:42:36.585
Because I've already established that we share that income.

00:42:36.795 --> 00:42:38.054
We both love Jesus.

00:42:38.344 --> 00:42:40.485
That's why we're gonna, we want to start a family together.

00:42:41.724 --> 00:42:41.855
Amen?

00:42:41.855 --> 00:42:43.644
That's the one thing.

00:42:44.135 --> 00:42:47.905
Single, married, divorced, and going to be married.

00:42:47.905 --> 00:42:49.085
Amen?

00:42:49.085 --> 00:42:49.454
Amen?

00:42:50.094 --> 00:42:53.485
Now, with that in mind, I want to take you one other place.

00:42:54.505 --> 00:42:56.215
Let's go to Ruth.

00:42:56.215 --> 00:42:57.215
Ruth, this is a men's fellowship.

00:42:57.815 --> 00:42:58.184
I know.

00:42:58.244 --> 00:42:58.885
Let's go to Ruth.

00:42:58.885 --> 00:43:00.164
Ruth, I love my baby.

00:43:00.164 --> 00:43:00.929
Bless the Bible.

00:43:01.460 --> 00:43:03.360
It's literally one thing to the bottom.

00:43:05.150 --> 00:43:07.420
One is, it's short enough I can read it in the night.

00:43:07.420 --> 00:43:11.666
So I can say, oh yeah, I've got a little more time.

00:43:11.666 --> 00:43:12.019
Yes.

00:43:12.019 --> 00:43:12.440
Ruth.

00:43:13.139 --> 00:43:13.389
I read it.

00:43:13.849 --> 00:43:14.179
I checked.

00:43:14.269 --> 00:43:16.079
It tells me it's another one, right?

00:43:16.619 --> 00:43:17.869
Alright, so who got Ruth?

00:43:18.090 --> 00:43:18.710
Real quick.

00:43:18.780 --> 00:43:19.199
Real quick.

00:43:19.420 --> 00:43:20.079
I'm gonna get ready to wrap up.

00:43:20.820 --> 00:43:21.469
Who got Ruth?

00:43:21.469 --> 00:43:22.126
I checked.

00:43:22.126 --> 00:43:23.112
I got it.

00:43:23.112 --> 00:43:23.750
Chapter one.

00:43:25.800 --> 00:43:26.340
Chapter one.

00:43:26.349 --> 00:43:27.458
Who got it?

00:43:27.458 --> 00:43:29.331
Here's what I found.

00:43:29.331 --> 00:43:30.630
And I got it?

00:43:30.630 --> 00:43:31.570
What verse?

00:43:31.570 --> 00:43:34.860
Um, chapter started with 1 verse 6.

00:43:34.860 --> 00:43:36.269
1 through 6?

00:43:36.269 --> 00:43:37.780
No, 1 verse 6.

00:43:38.599 --> 00:43:44.489
Then she arose with her daughters in law, that she might return from the house of Moab.

00:43:45.210 --> 00:43:53.940
For she had heard in the country of Moab how that the Lord had visited his people in giving them bread.

00:43:54.369 --> 00:43:58.550
Okay, first of all, in this situation here, Ruth is a widow.

00:43:59.344 --> 00:44:04.585
So Ruth, um, uh, they were married for 10 years, and obviously they were married, they had some kids.

00:44:04.804 --> 00:44:08.204
And her brother in law and her father in law all died.

00:44:08.684 --> 00:44:14.605
And then her sister, or the other sister, the other, uh, uh, daughter in law was there as well.

00:44:14.905 --> 00:44:21.740
Naomi is the mother of the two boys, and the husband and the wife to the man that died, his father.

00:44:21.740 --> 00:44:22.099
Amen?

00:44:22.099 --> 00:44:23.675
Just to get you guys to know the story.

00:44:24.094 --> 00:44:24.864
So just real quick.

00:44:25.175 --> 00:44:27.014
So, so now they, all of them are dead.

00:44:27.364 --> 00:44:30.735
So Naomi said, well, listen, I don't have any more kids.

00:44:30.844 --> 00:44:33.322
You guys may as well go back to Moabite, to your Moabite country.

00:44:33.322 --> 00:44:35.255
By the way, anybody know anything about the Moabites?

00:44:35.795 --> 00:44:36.284
Just real quick.

00:44:39.125 --> 00:44:43.465
I know, I know there was one person, like they were supposed to kill him.

00:44:44.385 --> 00:44:44.605
Right?

00:44:44.675 --> 00:44:46.534
One man they were supposed to kill and they didn't kill him.

00:44:46.534 --> 00:44:50.335
And years later came the Moabites.

00:44:50.644 --> 00:44:51.644
Yeah, these weren't good people.

00:44:51.980 --> 00:44:52.230
Right.

00:44:52.809 --> 00:44:53.909
They weren't necessarily good people.

00:44:54.530 --> 00:44:54.840
Amen.

00:44:55.300 --> 00:44:59.539
So, but, these people had married, these boys had married these Moabite girls, right?

00:44:59.920 --> 00:45:05.750
So now, the mother said, listen, you guys go back to your civilization, go back to your culture, go back to the people you know, right?

00:45:06.239 --> 00:45:07.840
So, read, who's reading that?

00:45:07.860 --> 00:45:08.260
Who's reading that?

00:45:09.769 --> 00:45:12.789
Oh, finish reading that.

00:45:12.789 --> 00:45:13.409
For a senator?

00:45:13.659 --> 00:45:14.030
Yes.

00:45:14.510 --> 00:45:21.030
Therefore, she went forth out of the place where she was, and her two daughters and daughter in laws with her.

00:45:21.434 --> 00:45:25.425
And they went on the way to return unto the land of Judah.

00:45:26.905 --> 00:45:28.735
I'm going to have you jump down to verse 14.

00:45:31.175 --> 00:45:34.164
And they lifted up their voices and wept again.

00:45:34.784 --> 00:45:40.215
And Ophrah kissed her mother in law, when Ruth claimed unto her.

00:45:41.635 --> 00:45:50.295
And she said, Behold, thy sister in law is gone back to her people, and unto her gods we turn thou after.

00:45:50.570 --> 00:45:59.409
My sister in law, and Ruth said it treat me not to leave her, leave thee, or to return from following after thee.

00:45:59.510 --> 00:45:59.960
Now stop.

00:46:00.380 --> 00:46:02.449
Remember, they have been together how long?

00:46:02.699 --> 00:46:03.867
10 years.

00:46:03.867 --> 00:46:04.239
10 years.

00:46:04.239 --> 00:46:07.010
So she's seeing Naomi's lifestyle.

00:46:07.309 --> 00:46:09.320
They've seen the way these people live.

00:46:09.710 --> 00:46:10.079
Amen?

00:46:10.079 --> 00:46:13.449
And where you go, I will go.

00:46:13.940 --> 00:46:16.280
And where you lodges, I will lodge.

00:46:16.349 --> 00:46:17.530
And ho, ha, ha.

00:46:17.530 --> 00:46:18.269
Drum roll please.

00:46:18.369 --> 00:46:18.639
Silence.

00:46:21.699 --> 00:46:22.809
No sound in the room.

00:46:23.360 --> 00:46:23.969
Oh, hold on.

00:46:27.420 --> 00:46:32.119
My people shall be my people and I got my God.

00:46:32.119 --> 00:46:32.539
Stop.

00:46:34.050 --> 00:46:34.659
That's a soul.

00:46:36.349 --> 00:46:36.960
That's a soul.

00:46:40.820 --> 00:46:42.219
Naomi won these girls stuff.

00:46:43.789 --> 00:46:44.429
I got her stuff.

00:46:44.960 --> 00:46:54.255
In other words, when Naomi decided to go Buddhist right now, I If they don't decide to go to Islam right now, that girl is going to Islam.

00:46:55.224 --> 00:46:59.014
If they don't decide to go vegan, come on then, they're all vegans.

00:46:59.855 --> 00:47:00.164
Amen?

00:47:02.985 --> 00:47:05.244
But then again, that's what a man does when he wins over a woman.

00:47:09.704 --> 00:47:11.005
She's going to change her method for you.

00:47:12.284 --> 00:47:13.105
She's going to follow you.

00:47:15.085 --> 00:47:17.105
You won her soul, didn't you?

00:47:17.105 --> 00:47:21.355
So if you win her soul, I'll go wherever you go.

00:47:22.164 --> 00:47:22.875
I'll serve with everything.

00:47:25.815 --> 00:47:28.824
That's what makes backslide the one that's about backslide.

00:47:30.775 --> 00:47:32.695
You want not to some degree.

00:47:32.695 --> 00:47:33.235
That's a good thing.

00:47:33.235 --> 00:47:34.514
It's a backslide.

00:47:34.784 --> 00:47:36.324
But the point is you want it.

00:47:37.034 --> 00:47:37.585
That's the purpose.

00:47:38.585 --> 00:47:42.405
You want it.

00:47:42.405 --> 00:47:43.375
The purpose is to wake her.

00:47:45.635 --> 00:47:54.619
McHale did love David and David David did love the cat, but David never won.

00:47:54.619 --> 00:47:57.710
He never won.

00:47:58.570 --> 00:48:01.030
That was an arrangement because he killed Goliath.

00:48:03.110 --> 00:48:03.610
That's the weapon.

00:48:03.610 --> 00:48:06.668
Don't go to sleep yet.

00:48:06.668 --> 00:48:09.728
Don't go to sleep yet.

00:48:09.728 --> 00:48:10.340
Amen?

00:48:10.340 --> 00:48:10.960
He didn't win.

00:48:12.480 --> 00:48:15.619
Anyhow, never won Jezebel.

00:48:17.500 --> 00:48:18.809
Never won her.

00:48:18.809 --> 00:48:18.940
Amen.

00:48:19.429 --> 00:48:20.110
She's not following.

00:48:20.190 --> 00:48:24.039
They have because they just don't have some bad names to describe.

00:48:24.039 --> 00:48:25.059
You have it is not good.

00:48:25.489 --> 00:48:26.289
And I can't say it.

00:48:26.289 --> 00:48:28.835
I'm saying I don't think it's worth it.

00:48:28.835 --> 00:48:30.289
Amen.

00:48:30.289 --> 00:48:31.530
She's not following him.

00:48:32.869 --> 00:48:35.119
Man, I want you not to dance.

00:48:38.389 --> 00:48:41.579
With your wife, your true girlfriend.

00:48:42.710 --> 00:48:48.219
Your fiancee, your baby mama, will they follow you all the way?

00:48:49.469 --> 00:48:51.030
Will they go wherever you go?

00:48:51.599 --> 00:48:53.559
Will they serve whatever God you serve?

00:48:55.099 --> 00:48:57.019
Because if you hadn't won them, they won't.

00:48:58.269 --> 00:48:59.440
The first sign of trouble, they're out.

00:49:00.969 --> 00:49:01.893
You hadn't won them.

00:49:01.893 --> 00:49:04.250
They loved you, but you hadn't won them.

00:49:05.199 --> 00:49:08.190
If you win them, they'll follow.

00:49:08.469 --> 00:49:08.739
They'll follow.

00:49:08.739 --> 00:49:12.170
All right, one more verse and I'm gonna wrap this up guys.

00:49:14.119 --> 00:49:15.039
Go to psalms 128.

00:49:17.030 --> 00:49:19.360
I'm going to show you how to do it.

00:49:19.840 --> 00:49:23.389
I'm going to show you how to do it.

00:49:23.389 --> 00:49:28.869
Go to psalms 128.

00:49:28.869 --> 00:49:31.179
Somebody with a strong voice, I want you to get ready to read this.

00:49:31.400 --> 00:49:33.617
Sorry, I can't help you with that online.

00:49:33.617 --> 00:49:34.829
Psalms 128.

00:49:34.889 --> 00:49:35.570
Who got it?

00:49:36.159 --> 00:49:36.570
Right here.

00:49:37.519 --> 00:49:38.210
Start with one.

00:49:38.860 --> 00:49:39.610
I got it.

00:49:39.619 --> 00:49:40.019
You sure?

00:49:40.320 --> 00:49:40.619
Yes, sir.

00:49:40.769 --> 00:49:41.190
Agreed?

00:49:41.869 --> 00:49:43.679
The last is after one.

00:49:44.085 --> 00:50:04.525
Who fears the Lord who walks in his way when you eat the labor of his hands, you shall be happy and it shall be well with your wife shall be like a fruitful vine in the very heart of your house, your children like olive plants all around your table.

00:50:04.945 --> 00:50:09.815
Behold, thus shall the man be blessed who fears the Lord.

00:50:10.235 --> 00:50:13.005
The Lord bless you out of Zion.

00:50:13.360 --> 00:50:19.980
And may you see the good of Jerusalem, Jerusalem, all the days of your life.

00:50:20.550 --> 00:50:28.019
Yes, may you see your children's children's peace be upon Israel.

00:50:28.320 --> 00:50:34.070
Now, now that's talking about, so when you read that, is it talking to Christians?

00:50:34.360 --> 00:50:38.219
Yeah, no, yeah, but the principle here is true.

00:50:38.400 --> 00:50:42.690
When it talks about the olives around the table, guys, listen, I'm gonna close with this.

00:50:42.690 --> 00:50:42.710
Okay.

00:50:43.269 --> 00:50:49.719
The owls around the table and the wife of the owls around the table is where you have your authority.

00:50:50.119 --> 00:50:50.880
What does that mean?

00:50:51.230 --> 00:50:54.380
When you sit down for dinner, that's when you teach.

00:50:55.789 --> 00:50:56.530
Good place.

00:50:56.900 --> 00:50:57.639
That's when you teach.

00:50:58.300 --> 00:50:58.780
That's when you teach.

00:50:59.150 --> 00:51:01.969
Oh, let me send my kids to Pastor Curtis.

00:51:02.389 --> 00:51:05.429
That's fine, but he's got the final authority, you.

00:51:07.940 --> 00:51:13.539
So, when your kids sit down at the table and your wife sits down at the table, that's what you teach.

00:51:14.079 --> 00:51:18.409
You get, you have the meal, the food is prepared, you have your Bible, and you teach.

00:51:20.329 --> 00:51:21.670
Oh no, no, but we go to Bible study.

00:51:22.119 --> 00:51:22.349
Nope.

00:51:23.159 --> 00:51:24.190
Pastor D is awesome.

00:51:26.309 --> 00:51:27.697
But you're the police.

00:51:27.697 --> 00:51:30.929
You're the police.

00:51:30.929 --> 00:51:32.900
Guys, remember I mentioned that role?

00:51:33.349 --> 00:51:34.280
The, the, the kid role?

00:51:34.340 --> 00:51:34.360
Yeah.

00:51:37.195 --> 00:51:37.494
Yeah.

00:51:37.735 --> 00:51:41.114
Uh, so this will be a cosmic.

00:51:41.114 --> 00:51:43.684
He is, he has an authority.

00:51:43.914 --> 00:51:45.074
He makes some really good money.

00:51:45.244 --> 00:51:48.414
He is the man with that position.

00:51:48.454 --> 00:51:52.175
That's his role and boys and women love those roles.

00:51:53.195 --> 00:51:54.514
They love the roll.

00:51:54.545 --> 00:51:59.239
Ooh, you, you make good.

00:51:59.460 --> 00:51:59.679
Him.

00:52:01.264 --> 00:52:03.034
They hate when you take that role off.

00:52:03.304 --> 00:52:10.235
See, what David did was he took, see you own a business and you, you guys do some awesome thing and you guys made money and you got all this position.

00:52:11.494 --> 00:52:15.724
Why you own the company and all his things and the money that comes with it.

00:52:15.755 --> 00:52:17.764
Ooh man, he is so valuable.

00:52:17.945 --> 00:52:21.519
But as soon as he takes the robot, they see a a, a line defi.

00:52:23.829 --> 00:52:27.329
The only reason you're so prosperous because you walk as a piece.

00:52:28.389 --> 00:52:29.409
You spend time with God.

00:52:30.280 --> 00:52:32.389
That's the only reason your business gets successful.

00:52:33.114 --> 00:52:34.715
It's because you spent time with God.

00:52:34.715 --> 00:52:37.625
The Lenin Ifa is time spent with God.

00:52:38.164 --> 00:52:39.184
The fear of God.

00:52:39.514 --> 00:52:42.315
The opportunity when you teach your kids and your family.

00:52:42.565 --> 00:52:44.514
That's the reason I'm so prosperous.

00:52:44.695 --> 00:52:46.344
That's the reason I'm so successful.

00:52:46.445 --> 00:52:48.675
It has nothing to do with that royal road.

00:52:48.715 --> 00:52:50.764
It has everything to do with the priesthood.

00:52:50.764 --> 00:52:52.155
The priesthood rolled that part off.

00:52:52.340 --> 00:52:54.559
You gotta spend time with God.

00:52:54.559 --> 00:52:56.036
And I fear God.

00:52:56.036 --> 00:52:57.885
Oh, you're a cursed guy?

00:52:57.885 --> 00:53:01.213
Oh no, I'm one, I'm not a cursed guy.

00:53:01.213 --> 00:53:04.172
Two of you do, get out of here.

00:53:04.172 --> 00:53:06.389
This is my house, get out.

00:53:06.389 --> 00:53:09.237
We're not going to have no cursed guys in here.

00:53:09.237 --> 00:53:10.713
That's not going to happen.

00:53:10.713 --> 00:53:13.344
If the kids, you kick them in the heck out of the house.

00:53:14.215 --> 00:53:16.144
You're not going to have that in my watch.

00:53:16.175 --> 00:53:17.144
Can we just sit?

00:53:17.534 --> 00:53:20.264
Because everybody got the code in, but no one wants to back it up.

00:53:20.364 --> 00:53:23.175
As for me and my house, oh, we will, sir.

00:53:24.855 --> 00:53:25.445
You don't like it?

00:53:25.675 --> 00:53:26.514
Get the heck out.

00:53:26.554 --> 00:53:27.965
I got 17 windows.

00:53:28.014 --> 00:53:28.704
Pick one of them.

00:53:30.224 --> 00:53:33.505
I got three doors and 17 more windows.

00:53:33.885 --> 00:53:34.514
Pick one of them.

00:53:34.625 --> 00:53:35.505
You're getting the heck out.

00:53:36.614 --> 00:53:38.465
I'm not endorsing divorce, guys.

00:53:38.465 --> 00:53:39.195
I didn't say that.

00:53:40.065 --> 00:53:41.565
But you got to get the heck out of here.

00:53:43.039 --> 00:53:47.650
We are going to swing because he played around with that too much.

00:53:47.800 --> 00:53:48.659
They will swing.

00:53:49.059 --> 00:53:49.429
Yes.

00:53:49.460 --> 00:54:02.724
Remember the curse of Eve is to do what over time and it gets worse and it becomes the spirit of what all right.

00:54:02.724 --> 00:54:11.164
No, we told you how to break it.

00:54:11.764 --> 00:54:12.994
You double down.

00:54:13.204 --> 00:54:14.494
You triple down.

00:54:14.735 --> 00:54:15.875
You don't back down.

00:54:16.655 --> 00:54:18.724
You will serve as for me in my house.

00:54:18.905 --> 00:54:20.945
Listen as for me, we're gonna serve the Lord.

00:54:20.951 --> 00:54:21.050
Amen.

00:54:21.070 --> 00:54:27.065
If the Bible says there will be two in the bay when he returns in the raptured, one will go up and one will get left.

00:54:27.965 --> 00:54:28.835
It can't be you.

00:54:30.244 --> 00:54:31.054
He can't do anything.

00:54:31.295 --> 00:54:32.289
I have to serve the Lord.

00:54:32.670 --> 00:54:33.329
Now what are you?

00:54:33.829 --> 00:54:34.530
Are we gonna be mean?

00:54:35.070 --> 00:54:35.289
Man?

00:54:35.289 --> 00:54:37.085
Came going to just uh uh, uh, fuck.

00:54:37.804 --> 00:54:38.525
Wash their wives.

00:54:38.824 --> 00:54:39.425
Go to hell.

00:54:40.119 --> 00:54:53.487
You're a lover, and you're a winner, and you're a teacher, and you're a lover, and you're a winner, and you're a teacher, and you're a winner, and a lover, and a teacher, and a circle art, and you'll never act better.

00:54:53.487 --> 00:54:54.485
Good work.

00:54:54.485 --> 00:54:55.485
Good work.

00:54:55.485 --> 00:54:56.483
Good work.

00:54:56.483 --> 00:54:56.983
Now.

00:54:56.983 --> 00:54:58.981
Yeah, but I'm checking.

00:54:58.981 --> 00:54:59.480
Now.

00:55:00.090 --> 00:55:09.809
Now, you know, if you had temptation before, get out of your form, get out of your cursing, get out of your drinking habits, get out of whatever habits you went through.

00:55:09.840 --> 00:55:11.539
Now you have a wife and kids with him.

00:55:12.260 --> 00:55:14.250
You ain't got time to be playing with this now.

00:55:14.579 --> 00:55:20.559
Because they're not going to believe you because we talked to you as a priest, but I see you living the same lifestyle I'm living.

00:55:22.280 --> 00:55:24.599
You can't do the same thing I want to do.

00:55:25.599 --> 00:55:26.489
So what am I going to do?

00:55:26.760 --> 00:55:27.559
Spend time with God.

00:55:28.469 --> 00:55:29.170
Be free.

00:55:29.500 --> 00:55:30.530
Be set free forever.

00:55:32.269 --> 00:55:32.769
This is the hard part.

00:55:32.949 --> 00:55:35.920
I knew this was going to be a happy, happy, jumpy, jumpy, joy, joy.

00:55:37.659 --> 00:55:45.989
But if you want to win her, you will serve God until they chop your head off.

00:55:45.989 --> 00:55:49.969
Amen.

00:55:52.000 --> 00:55:52.590
Easy to say.

00:55:54.960 --> 00:55:56.130
Easy to say, guys.

00:55:57.929 --> 00:55:58.820
But she's watching.

00:55:59.320 --> 00:56:06.059
As a matter of fact, I'm going to go as far as to say, if you want her heart and she really loves you, she wants to see you bleed.

00:56:06.059 --> 00:56:07.130
She wants to see you bleed.

00:56:08.000 --> 00:56:09.349
She wants to see you bleed.

00:56:09.739 --> 00:56:17.619
Because, you know, every time, when we look at the verse, when they said, Wyatt didn't want to follow Naomi, they said, because it looks like the Lord is blessing over there.

00:56:17.619 --> 00:56:17.929
You know.

00:56:19.380 --> 00:56:23.119
Whatever you do, everything you put your hand on God to the blessing.

00:56:23.860 --> 00:56:25.670
They can tell it's God blessing you.

00:56:26.769 --> 00:56:30.820
And you don't even have a degree, or maybe you have a small degree, or maybe you have a big degree, whatever it is.

00:56:30.860 --> 00:56:33.559
But somebody keeps trying to kill you and trying to destroy you.

00:56:33.670 --> 00:56:36.679
But God, it looks like God's hand is on you.

00:56:36.679 --> 00:56:38.150
The favor of God is on you.

00:56:39.449 --> 00:56:41.860
Ah, I don't know if I'm getting this, you guys.

00:56:41.860 --> 00:56:42.059
Amen?

00:56:42.590 --> 00:56:43.000
Amen.

00:56:44.179 --> 00:56:45.030
They see it.

00:56:45.059 --> 00:56:46.170
Your wife sees it.

00:56:46.269 --> 00:56:47.000
Your kids see it.

00:56:47.030 --> 00:56:49.610
He's rebellious, but he sees it.

00:56:49.610 --> 00:56:51.789
She's rebellious, but she sees it.

00:56:52.199 --> 00:56:53.380
Those kids see it.

00:56:53.380 --> 00:56:54.570
Those grandkids see it.

00:56:54.630 --> 00:56:59.269
They're trying to be rebellious, but they can't deny the fact that it looks like God's hand is on your life.

00:57:00.679 --> 00:57:03.139
You're gonna win, because you don't want to see them go to hell.

00:57:03.789 --> 00:57:10.434
But as for me and my house, What's up?

00:57:10.434 --> 00:57:13.514
You're not going to walk in the back.

00:57:13.514 --> 00:57:14.264
Everybody shut this.

00:57:14.284 --> 00:57:16.635
No, that's not what I'm not doing.

00:57:17.304 --> 00:57:18.945
I don't smell no food up in here.

00:57:19.255 --> 00:57:20.958
I didn't say anything.

00:57:20.958 --> 00:57:23.175
No, no, no.

00:57:23.824 --> 00:57:33.690
What that means is the last one to go to bed You The first one to get up, everybody gets up at six, you get up at five.

00:57:36.610 --> 00:57:41.730
Everybody's watching TV, you're studying the scriptures, but as you're preaching, you're studying the scriptures.

00:57:42.420 --> 00:57:43.320
You aren't preaching.

00:57:43.510 --> 00:57:46.110
You have to put those items around your table.

00:57:51.969 --> 00:57:57.420
You're not going to win a company church and give you keep the pastor curse and then let them listen to Pastor G.

00:57:57.659 --> 00:57:59.340
No, you're going to do that.

00:57:59.420 --> 00:58:03.010
And then the Bible says that you're going to come home and you're going to search this.

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You're going to take his notes, take his notes, and then you're going to search the scriptures together.

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Okay, let's go over those notes.

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Now they're going to see you as the authority.

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We're going to respect the pastor.

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They're going to see me as the authority.

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Amen.

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Amen.

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Absolutely justice would.

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Amen.

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Justin Wood.

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Yes.

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Amen.

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Common question, quick.

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We good?

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Now we gonna break off quick.

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Second, the thing we gonna break off into, is this about five minutes or so.

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I wanna add, I'm asking a question and, and for the staff, I want you listen up.

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I forgot to give you the questions.

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The question is this.

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How do I start leaving my house as a priest?

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Well, I'm already a priest.

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I ain't asking that.

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How do you start leaving my house as a priest?

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Your wife is the cabinet.

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Now this is the part you wasn't ready for.

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The next part I'm about to say.

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Your girlfriend, then your children, regardless of their age.

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My kid is 47 years old.

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How I didn't ask you that, you silly father.

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They're still either going to go to hell or not.

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And what about single guys?

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What we just said.

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Wife, girlfriend, or whoever you want to mention.

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Because see, when you meet a woman, she's supposed to know who you are.

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That's established.

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That's established.

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All my first dates started there.

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The left hand, the right hand, the lunch, whatever.

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I'm going to let you know that because that's why that's important to me.

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I just want to make sure you're good with that because if you're not good with that, check please.

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You know what the deal is.

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You know what the deal is.

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You know what the deal is.

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And then we got the green, and we're going to keep it going.

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Keep this thing going.

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Oh, she hot! That's a what?

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That's a what?

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You know, when we get to the end of the day.

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That's a simp.

01:00:04.304 --> 01:00:04.940
That's a simp.

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Oh, she hot! I don't care.

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Every minute she's hot.

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Oh, that's a simp.

01:00:09.679 --> 01:00:12.820
You know, you know something, Jack?

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I really believe that before your first day, you know if I'm even going to do a first day in a row.

01:00:17.110 --> 01:00:18.489
Yeah.

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Now, I will.

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Go ahead.

01:00:21.480 --> 01:00:21.780
Just.

01:00:22.304 --> 01:00:46.619
Just to piggyback on what you said, the man that you said about, you know, dating, the, when you, if you're a physical single man, if you are a single man, or even a divorced man, or even someone separated, the, the whole, the whole object of your life is that, don't have your background, don't have her attracted to the kingly girl, you want her to be first attracted to the oofa, right?

01:00:46.619 --> 01:00:59.150
The priest, the priest, so don't even, like he said, for single men, if you, you want to attract a woman that's attracted to you because you're a man of God, because that's what's.

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And that way, if she makes 600, 000, if you make 60, 000.

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That's probably not gonna work.

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But she might say, you know, I respect, you know, he hears from God, he can help direct my life.

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That's right.

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That's worthwhile enough.

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Yep, sir.

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But if you don't even have a back, be worth this worth.

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So how do I start leaving my house as a priest or my wife, my girlfriend, my fiance?

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If you, let's suppose you had to start doing that today.

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If your wife is not saved, what life connects?

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And how long do I freeze?

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My kids got?

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